Questions you have always wanted to ask the opposite gender (Part 2)

With the success of our previous article on questions you’ve always wanted to ask the opposite gender, we decided that we should go for round two.

This time, we went to the streets and asked over 20 youths what questions they were dying to ask the other gender. Here are the answers that our writers Audrey, Azra, Marcus and Ronney have for your most burning questions:

Azra: You just have to be nice and sweet. Show us that chivalry isn’t dead and we’ll definitely notice you.

Marcus: There’s no other way to put this…but to attract my attention your personality has to be alluring enough.

Azra: Looks.

Marcus: I can’t speak for the entire male population but for me…eyes. Eyes. EYES.

Ronney: The whole package. How she dresses, how she looks, everything.

Azra: Sadly, yes. I’ve dated some very nice guys and I don’t know why, but I just couldn’t be with them. Maybe it’s because there’s no thrill.

Marcus: Yes, speaking from personal experience. However, if the nice guy does not make a move or make his feelings known it’s no longer a nice guy but a stupid guy.

Audrey: It’s just feelings. I mean sometimes you just really feel connected to a cause. Personally, I think both genders are equally matched, it’s just that girls express it more outwardly.

Marcus: I think they’re just born that way.

Ronney: Girls are like puzzles that you can’t solve. Ever. So I just think that being emotional is just part of being a female.

Audrey: I think that if you date a guy smaller than you, it’ll be an ego boost for the guys. But for the girls, it’ll be the complete opposite.

Ronney: I wouldn’t date someone taller than me. I’m 1.83m so if I date someone taller than me, it’ll be like holding hands with a skyscraper. As a guy, I won’t feel good.

Azra: I think flirty guys and girls are generally touchier. But if you can’t tell, just remember that if you have to question yourself about a guy, then he’s a flirty guy.

Marcus: There’s always that fine line between nice and flirty. Because sometimes when trying to be nice it may come off as being flirty, so I don’t really know.

Azra: When a girl cries, always show concern! Give her a hug and let her know that you are there for her.

Ronney: When guys cry, it means that we are really showing our weakness. During that time, I think it’s best to just leave us alone and we will recover.

Azra: Guys always make this assumption that every single time that a girl is upset or angry, it’s because she’s on her period. Not true at all.

Ronney: Girls always assume that we don’t care and that we are insensitive about a lot of stuff that’s going on in their lives but it’s not true.

Audrey: Not having to go for National Service.

Azra: Girlfriends. Cause at the end of the day, even though girls can be dramatic and bitchy, they are the only people that can understand every emotion you go through.

Marcus: Not having periods.